Ego and Nature
The simplest way to define ego is but with one sentence. Our
ego is the sense of our own values and importance. In religious terms it can also mean as the
false sense of self as separate from others and God. In other words ego in my
opinion is also how much confidence one holds and the way they hold themselves
around others. Ever since I was made aware of Freudian thoughts in school, I
fell in love in Freud’s findings and theories of psychoanalysis such as the ego
diagram he created of people.
People are all self-centered and think of themselves too
highly at some point in their lives. It can be when they finally acquired that
college degree, become some acclaimed lawyer, doctor, or reached an executive
position in some major company. However,
I feel this doesn’t always happen during adulthood but also as children such as
if a child is born into a fairly well off family or the heir to millions or a
company their parents are CEOs of. The comfortable environment and
circumstances they live in just fills them to the overfilling point of high
self-confidence, huge egos, and see no one but themselves. When people attain a
certain amount of fortune, power, authority, adequate lifestyle, they
eventually allow their egos to take over their good judgment and forget how
they once were or those who are not as fortunate.
Fortune gives birth to greed. Power gives birth to ambition.
Authority gives birth to confidence. Intelligence gives birth to concede. All
this factors brew one’s ego sometimes without their awareness and sometimes
they are aware and yet still choose to continue on that path because their ego
encourages that they are doing the right thing and it makes them feel good!
Having a huge ego is not a bad thing. However, I feel that
if you’re ego becomes so huge that you can ignore the cries for help from
others, see the kindness of others as a plot to gain something, to think of
yourselves higher than those who are less accomplished, to see no one but your
own wants and desires, to believe that your opinions are right and others are
wrong, to refuse to listen and accept the advice of others, then I ask how are
you still considered a human? If your ego is so huge, that when you see a
helpless animal or homeless people on the street yet do nothing. When you see
an elderly person having trouble and refuse to help. Then what kind of person
are you?
My aunt once told me to never think too highly of myself
regardless of how smart I am or how acclaimed I may become. Because you may be
high and mighty, but never forget there is another mountain that is higher than
yours. You cannot turn a blind eye or underestimate those who are lesser than
you in accomplishments or where they are in life. There are things to learn
from them. Do not think because you are professional worker in a big firm or
company that you are the best. Sometimes there is someone who is better than
you in terms of personality trait, morality, dignity, and intelligence yet just
were less fortunate and didn’t have the necessary finance to go to college. Keep
an open heart and mind. Many things are able to be self-taught and don’t require
a degree, any subject can be self-taught other than science and law fields. I
don’t believe there is any subject in the world that can’t be self-taught;
however, that is a topic for another day.
Many people believe they are not apart of nature and are
greater than animals. I feel that is wrong because we evolved from monkeys through
millions of years. How can we say that we are separate from nature? How can we
claim we are any different from a dog of cat? We desire a good home, we desire
to keep our stomachs full, we desire to be happy, we desire to be praised and
loved, we desire to have children and we fight with others. How different is
that from animals?
I have like literally no ego. I never think of myself
greater, better, or higher than anyone. Even if given with authority and
leadership, I’ve never spoken to anyone in a tone or manner that makes them
seem any less or lower than I. Everyone is equal to me regardless of high or
low positions. I love animals and feel most comfortable with nature. Nature is
enormous and limitless compared to one person standing in the opened face of
nature before them.
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